KW: I was going to ask, so you have three kids, correct?
DP: Yes.
KW: Did any of them go on to be engineers?
DP: Oh yes. Our daughter showed a real flair for math early on. She liked it; it was fun and we encouraged that and so when she was growing up I always told her, “Go with your strengths. Get a degree in math or something of that sort then you can have a job where you’re making good money and you’re self-sufficient and all that sort of thing and then maybe you can find time every once in awhile for some of those other fun things that you like." Of course, when you’re working there really isn’t much slack time. Anyway, she got a math degree from Cal-Poly and she went to work for General Dynamics also and she got into computer programming, well they call it "Signatures". Guys would go out and record the infrared signatures of missiles and various tanks and helicopters and all that sort of thing, each one has a unique identifying signature, the waves and all that sort of thing so that you could tell what it is. You program a missile that way, so that it can check out the infrared signature of something and tell whether it’s a friendly or a foe and whether it wants to lock onto it to destroy it or if it wants to let it live. Anyway, she got involved in that, doing computer work on it. Of course, in the big cutback at General Dynamics she lost her job, but eventually she got on at Lockheed, now Lockheed-Martin, Skunk Works in Burbank, which was a secret effort and they had lots of people that were good at radar but they didn’t have anybody that was good at infrared, so they hired her and she met her husband there, an aeronautical engineer, has a master’s degree from Cal-Poly (laughs). He’s from Cincinnati.
KW: Oh, okay. I’m from Ohio originally.
DP: Are you? Oh, okay, well, he got his degree from University of Cincinnati. He's an Ohio State fan in a hotbed of Michiganders (laughs).
KW: My Dad is a big Ohio State fan whereas I root for the Wolverines.
DP: Good for you (laughs). Anyway, she has a little girl now but she has gone back to work full-time because they just wouldn’t let her go. I’m living my career vicariously through her because she has made the career out of it that I never did. But she had gotten very good at it even before she got married and she married kind of late in life, so they only have one little girl. And they were married for five years before she was born. But anyway, Lockheed did not want to let her go; they brought her back half-time for awhile and then finally wanted her back full-time. But she has really made a mark for herself.
KW: I wanted to ask you, I’ve read in articles and I’ve heard it mentioned before that a big challenge facing today’s women engineers is finding balance because they want to be able to have a career and raise a family, how is she managing that?
DP: Well, she is but there are times, you know, she is thinking about possibly trying to leave it because her husband is doing well enough that they don’t really need her income anymore and she’s been thinking seriously now that Clara is five and starting school maybe she ought to stay home so she’s there when she comes home. I don’t know whether she’ll be able to do it or not because I know she also loves her job. But there’s the typical mother’s complaint that she does not get enough sleep. And even though Mike is a terrific husband and a help, has been great with Clara right from the start, it’s still...much of the burden always falls on the woman. He’s a pilot and he likes to go off and fly and all that sort of thing. And she’s a censor, she censors essays...and she has gotten back to that again. She was pretty serious about that when she was in high school. That’s one of her things. She gets out and she’s got a group she plays “Dungeons and Dragons" with that started in college and they still get together (laughs). So, she gets her little outings too.
KW: It must be hard because, like you said, she’s sort of doing double duty.
DP: Yeah. It’s very difficult and she did finally take my advice and get somebody to come clean her house for her (laughs). Because I said, “You can’t do everything." I know when I went back to work I still had two boys in high school and it was difficult to come home and fix dinner and then clean up dinner and it would nine o'clock before I could sit down and look at the paper and by then I’m falling asleep. There just aren’t enough hours in the day and you’re spending all your time getting up and going to work and working and then falling into bed. (laughs) But then, not to leave out the sons, number one son is Mike also, a little confusion there, but he went to University of California, Santa Barbara and he’s a mechanical engineer. He talked about going into aero and when I was there I said, "Maybe you would be better off being a mechanical engineer and don’t overspecialize because sometimes they’re looking for ways to eliminate you when your resume comes in. You might be better off not specializing because aero is a branch of mechanical." So, he did that and he also talked about, “Well, gee, everybody is going into electrical,” and I said, "Yeah, but you’re better off being a good mechanical than a so-so electrical." (laughs) So, anyway he works for the Navy at Point Mugu, which is where Pat worked for a long time and he is in charge of targets, the things they put up for the Navy pilots to shoot down.
KW: What does the last son do?
DP: The third one, Doug, is our black sheep: he’s a financial analyst (laughs). But he likes science and stuff too. He’s a plane nut like the rest of us and he thought for awhile about studying physics, but then he started getting into it and decided that between the physics and the math he was overwhelmed. He’s always liked money (laughs). So, anyway, he’ll probably be able to buy and sell the rest of us. But they’re all technically inclined anyway. In fact, on this cruise our son-in-law Mike found this float plane trip and it turned out that Christy and Mike and Clara and Bob and I and Doug and his friend Caroline all went in this plane (laughs) in the fjords of Alaska, landed on one of them, saw some bears. It was great.
KW: I was actually just in Alaska two summers ago. We did a little cruise there. It was very pretty.
DP: Oh, I loved it. That was the cruise we took, from Anchorage down to Vancouver. So, anyway, they all definitely were college oriented. Doug wound up kind of stringing his college career out because he didn’t want to give up his job is what it was. And he would have to do that if he went to California in Santa Barbara like he was all set to do. So, he wound up going to the local junior college for a little while and then he went to the University of La Verne over in La Verne, California, which is not far from here. I’m sure you’ve never heard of that one (laughs). But anyway he got his degree from there and then he got his M.B.A. at UC Irvine and Mike got his M.B.A. from USC, which we try not to talk about (laughs). They came up to Point Mugu and offered the classes there.
KW: Well, it seems like they’ve all definitely inherited your interest in learning.
DP: Yeah, they have. And of course they get it from their Dad too. He took the professional engineers test after he left his job at Kaiser, when Kaiser shut down the steel mill, and he was working for a testing lab and they said, "Well, it'd be even greater if you had a professional engineer stamp to put on your report," (laughs) so he went out and did that.